MOST UNHAPPINESS SPRINGS FROM WANTING AND NOT GETTING.

Wanting is so ubiquitous it must be natural, human, meant to be.

It is so natural it cannot be wrong.

You want someone to love you; you want to have money; you want to have a child; you want fame and you want success.

What turns it bad is when you want it Now! At your command. You should get it just because you want it.